True story: There is a Unisex locker room at work. The female toilet was occupied. The male toilet door wide open and empty. Female A angrily bang on the female door yelling she had to pee and didnt believe in locking doors and angrily waited for the person occupying it to open up (the door was Not opened). Female B, in the same situation, simply walked into the unoccupied male bathroom, used the toilet and left. One suffered, One was free.
The Only difference between the 2 women was state of mind.
One frozen with rules, one liberated by her reality
Nothing is either good or bad but Thinking makes it so…